Planning an Autumn wedding is magical—crisp air, vibrant foliage, and cozy celebrations set the perfect backdrop for your love story. For LGBTQ+ couples, Fall offers unique opportunities to blend tradition, inclusivity, and personal flair. At RainbowWeddingNetwork.com, we’ve produced over 350 LGBTQ+ wedding expos nationwide, and we’ve seen countless couples make Autumn their season of choice. Here are our top tips for creating an unforgettable Fall wedding.
Embrace Autumn Colors with Intention
From rich burgundies to earthy greens, the seasonal palette is naturally romantic. LGBTQ+ couples can add a personalized twist by weaving in pride-inspired accents—think rainbow-toned floral ribbons, bold boutonnières, or jewel-toned linens that celebrate both love and diversity.
Cozy Guest Experiences
The season invites warmth and comfort. Consider offering guests hot cider bars, mulled wine, baskets of crunchy apples, locally sourced pumpkin treats, and delectable pies- even handheld mini-pies as a preview before the main event of the cake cutting. For outdoor ceremonies, provide blankets, quilts, scarves or shawls with your names embroidered as keepsakes—a thoughtful, inclusive gesture that also enhances comfort.
Venue Choices that Shine in Fall
Historic barns, vineyards, and mountain lodges are popular for their Fall charm. Many LGBTQ+ couples also choose urban rooftops or art galleries, mixing rustic beauty with modern flair. Always ask venues about their inclusivity policies to ensure your celebration is supported in every way.
Wardrobe and Style Tips
Fall weddings allow creativity with layers and textures—velvet suits, shawls, and jewel-toned gowns photograph beautifully. For couples breaking away from tradition, mix coordinating colors rather than matching, reflecting both individuality and unity. Gender-affirming fashion should be celebrated, whether that’s a tux, gown, custom pant suit, or a hybrid look that feels true to you.
Seasonal Décor with LGBTQ+ Spirit
Autumn décor doesn’t have to mean pumpkins alone, although rainbow-colored pumpkins are pretty hip! Add modern touches with copper accents, moody candlelight, or floral arrangements featuring protea, sunflowers and dahlias. Subtle elements—like uplighting in pride flag hues or table numbers inspired by LGBTQ+ history—can add tasteful, fun accents that make the celebration uniquely yours.
Mind the Timing
Shorter days mean earlier sunsets. Schedule the hours of your ceremony to capture golden-time photography, then move into a candlelit reception for a romantic flow. Experienced LGBTQ+ friendly photographers often bring extra insight into capturing candid, affirming moments—invest in one who understands your story.
Honor Community and Connection
Fall weddings are a chance to honor both love and legacy. Many couples choose to include rituals like unity candles, readings from LGBTQ+ poets, dedications to trailblazers who paved the way for marriage equality, or an auction for artwork from local LGBTQ+ artists instead of traditional gift-giving. Small details like this enrich the meaning of the day.
Why Fall Weddings are Perfect for LGBTQ+ Couples
The season symbolizes transformation and gratitude—powerful themes for couples who’ve overcome challenges and now step proudly into marriage. By combining Autumn’s beauty with intentional LGBTQ+ inclusivity, your celebration becomes more than a wedding; it becomes a statement of love, authenticity, and pride.
Plan Your Perfect Day with RainbowWeddingNetwork
At RainbowWeddingNetwork.com, we connect couples to LGBTQ+-friendly wedding professionals across the nation. Attend one of our upcoming LGBTQ+ Wedding Expos this Fall and meet vendors who understand and celebrate your journey. Explore dates, locations, and resources at RainbowWeddingNetwork.com/expos - we hope to see you soon and hear more about your amazing love story!
Summer's Heating Up! How about some new ideas for ICE SCULPTURES just to cool down and freshen your inspiration for Wedding Decor??
Ice Sculptures are an eye-catching way to add a center focal point to your reception decor. They can be breathtaking works of art, fun & unique additions to your wedding theme, or functional display pieces.
CENTERPIECES & FOCAL DECOR:
Two interlocked rainbow hearts make for a fabulous centerpiece, or a trans- flag or a monogram... but why not consider a piece that is relevant to your theme or likes as a couple, such as a mega-sized treble clef, a hockey trophy or a roulette wheel for a casino-themed wedding, or a flamboyant ice mask for a masquerade ball...? Remember to ask your artist for their creative input: accent additions to your ice sculpture can be just as exciting as the main piece! -Extra side containment vessels (with lighting of course) for use in displaying decor such as LGBTQ+ flags, faux lighted tree branches or other faux florals... Unique water features... Intricately designed candleabras (faux candles, to avoid any extra heat)... Mini-sculptures to build on the central idea of the main artwork (such as carved figures of you & your partner dancing beside your newly shared last name...)
Remember, back-lit or up-lit works carved in ice are spectacular... but your sculptor can also infuse colors within the ice itself. Any hues of the rainbow are possible.
Another artistic option is to place vibrant blossoms within the ice so that their natural beauty is on display - this provides a gorgeous and unique way to add floral accents in to your decor. Fruit wheels -such as watermelon or pineapple- are also a lovely method to accent icy bowls or centerpieces: infusing the artistry of Mother Nature in to your designs!
BEVERAGE HOLDERS & DISPLAYS:
Considering a selection of crafted beer or bottled sodas at your celebration? Customize the Bottle Holder with an ice sculpture: keep the drinks at a wonderfully chilled temperature while displaying with finesse & flair.
Shot glasses, beer mugs (or root beer float mugs!) made out of ice are also an entertaining way to serve beverages.
Fountains - A beautiful and interactive feature that allow your guests to enjoy serving themselves!
Display Ice... within Ice! An artistically rendered ice dispenser alongside your fountain is another fun added feature. Remember, there are endless ways to shape the ice cubes: monogram letters, symbolic triangles, totems that are meaningful to you and your partner, etc.
CULINARY DISPLAYS & SERVICE ITEMS:
Multi-tiered showcase displays are perfect for hors d'ouevres such as fruit or cheeses, for main course selections including seafood, or for dessert arrangements. Carved artistically, the frozen containers for food can be shaped as giant shells, fish, fruit, cupcakes or whatever else you might envision.
Towers that actually encase culinary selections, such as chilled shrimp, can rise magnificently as a centerpiece and then loosely 'dispense' fresh items in to the lower ice bowl. Let gravity (and art!) do the serving!
Dessert displays are interactive and fun: Indulge your guests with a rainbow of ice pops or gelato... an ice cream or frozen yogurt sundae bar... a serve-yourself cookie bar complete with varied frostings, cookie dough fillings and endless multi-colored sprinkles or candy toppings... a snow cone bar with a spectrum of juices and syrups to choose from... all chilled and displayed within an intricate, multi-tiered buffet carved out of ice, or slick frosted dessert bar accented with mini-sculptures to match your overall decor.
ENHANCING YOUR THEME:
Going for a Wintry Theme, or Whimsical Fairytale Wedding?
How about a custom Ice Wall... or Hanging mini-sculptures of ice, dangling in a curtain backdrop for photos or behind the couple's reception table? Dangling icy snowflakes? Tiny Pride triangles frosted and twinkling in backlit rainbow colors? Simple hanging icicles? -Disney could do no better!
YES, an ice castle, ice castle, ice castle! This can be a stand-alone piece, or provide nooks and crannies for your guests to find hidden take-away favors... or a stylized decorative work with mementos displayed that highlight aspects of your unique love story: framed photos... the locket your sweetie gave you on the anniversary of your first date... a mini- street sign of the address of your first apartment together... a single rose because that's the flower you gave your beloved when you proposed...
And be sure to consider an interactive Snow Table for the kids! -An ice-laden rectangular basin or large sculpted container, filled (and replenished throughout your celebration) with shaved ice... Add a bowl of props alongside: a few small carrots, black buttons, mini knit caps & scarves, tiny branches... Invite your guests, young & old, to create their own snow-people and join in your seasonal theme! (And of course if replenishing the shaved ice is too labor-intensive, switch it out for white molding clay. Be sure to include wintry cookie cutter designs to add to the fun: snowflakes, gingerbread people cutouts, stars, etc.)
Let ICE inspire your CREATIVITY... and Have Fun adding to the wonder of your decor ideas!
Indulge in the FUN of adding colorful, lively, fresh details to your Wedding Plans! Let the season of Springtime inspire!
THEME COLORS - Options for theme colors for a Springtime Wedding are ENDLESS!! Take your time browsing online or even in stores, to see what hues catch your eye. Don't be afraid to get playful as you mix and match on your quest to discover which colors really pop - nailing down this little detail will go a long way with your overall wedding plans!
Consider a pastel palette! It quickly says "Spring" and is also a convenient way to bring in a sense of the Rainbow, if you like.
Watercolor-splashed Invitations, Programs, Signage and personalized Keepsakes: Watercolors offer that subdued look, the beautiful sweep of springtime is inferred. You can still choose any variety of particular colors you like, but the watercolor effect will bring subtlety and elegance to your designs!
Adding Natural Accents with your Theme Colors to Apparel & Accessories: Floral bouttoinneires, hair ornaments and crowns trimmed with buds, crystals, leaves and boughs... colored patterns on your tie, kerchief, shirt, jacket lining, socks or shoes.
SPRINGTIME FARE -
Chat with your caterer and dessert vendors about imaginative ways to include lots of veggies and fruits, to keep the menu fresh, light and seasonal. Here are some mouth-watering ideas!
Roasted Shrimp & Orzo Pasta: Served cool, this flavorful pasta is colorful and offers a refreshing mix of flavors! The rice-based orzo brings a healthier and GF note. Roasted shrimp, orzo, cucumber, red onion, feta and your choice of spice blend. Can also add tofu squares or diced green peppers.
Breakfast Indulgence: A brunch feast is common for springtime garden weddings. Thick, luscious french toast with a selection of toppings - YUM! Bananas, seasonal berries, hand-whipped fluffy cream, freshly churned cinnamon butter, indulgent maple syrup... Served with eggs and bacon, turkey sausage, vegetarian sausage - delicious! Offer your guests a Beverage Station, where they can choose pineapple, orange or grapefruit, along with choice of steaming teas or undeniably fresh coffee... and you've got yourselves a winning menu!
Lemon Curd Tart or invidually served Tartlets: Scrumptious! The zing of lemon always seems to shout "Springtime!" And the brightness of color in these tarts is sure to delight. Top with candied lemon peels... or get more creative by adding edible flowers... or a modest mix of candied berries to mix up the vibrancy: one edible green leaf, one purple blackberry, one red raspberry, one blueberry, one candied orange peel and you've got the entire rainbow!
Salmon: Baked, steamed, roasted, seared... Seasoned with olive oil and garlic, or mustard, or coarse black pepper, or a maple syrup drizzle, or a raspberry glaze... Consider serving with inventive side dishes to make this classic favorite something new!
Salad Station: Offering interactive cuisine stations is fun and provides your guests with the opportunity to choose based on their own tastes. Discuss with your caterer ways to be conservative with the anticipated portion sizes: this will be a budget-saver and help ensure food is not wasted.
Beverage Stations: Smoothies, Mocktails, Teas, Coffees... These marry so well with afternoon celebrations set in the spring! Consider an assortment of juices or punch, along with fresh infusions that guests can add as they like: lime / orange / lemon / cucumber wheels... melon balls... sprigs of mint, sage or basil... cherries... blackberries and strawberries... pineapple wedges... edible flowers...
SIMPLE FAVORS & KEEPSAKES -
An interactive Keepsake Station! Offer a variety of florals and invite guests to create their own 'Takeaway Bouquet.' -This one is always a hit, particularly if you include blooms that are the same as those spotlighted in your ceremony bouquets and reception centerpieces. Remember that the vases can be personalized with custom labels or painted by you and your sweetie as a stress-reliever as you prepare for the Big Day... or they can be repurposed - consider scavenging used vases or vase-like containers at thrift shops, etc.
A Smaller Guest Count? Consider tiny houseplants as keepsake giveaways! A small potted plant will serve as a long-lasting reminder of your special celebration. -And remember, you can always just give this very special favor to specific guests such as: wedding attendants, family, and select vendors such as your officiant, wedding designer, etc.
Flower Seed Packets are still a lovely take-away gift! A rustic basket or tin display container, filled with varied seed packets all with a customized label from you & your sweetie... offered with a vision of LOVE BLOOMING! It's a sweet and thoughtful way to extend the beauty of Your Special Day.
ACCENT FLORALS -
An archway, ceremony backdrop or floral wall adorned with vibrant blossoms is always wonderful... but here are some additional ways to include flowers and natural elements in to your decor!
*Hanging florals, greenery, or latticed branches is an easy way to Accent Your Spaces from ABOVE. -Encourage your guests to look up... and fill out your event space with delightful natural highlights. Hanging rustic lighting or fabrics adds one more layer of flair!
*Shrubs of Blooms along aisles or pathways, instead of petals or smaller bouquets. Twinkle lights are easily hidden within the leaves for nighttime wonder.
*Entryway Majesty: Let everyone enter in style! Ask your floral designer to dress up the main doorframe with cascading ivy, select blossoms of your choice, wood elements or streaming fabric.
*On a floral budget? Dangling FLOWER BUDS, hung individually in a select area, can create an eye-catching and whimsical accent.
*Framing with Flowers: Add blossoms or garlands around signage, seating charts, artwork, etc to keep the theme going!
*And remember to include florals in to your celebration not just because of color, but because they are actually your favorite blooms... or because these particular blossoms were present at the front doorstep of your first apartment together... or because the particular flower represents a quality that you highly value, or wish to infuse in to your marriage. Learn more about the "language of flowers" with a quick click: https://www.almanac.com/flower-meanings-language-flowers
THE SEND-OFF -
Your Springtime Wedding will remind everyone of the inherent beauty of "fresh starts..." Build on this as you finish up your celebration!
A Dove Release, or Butterfly Release, is still an organically meaningful way to close your reception and send you and your new spouse 'off into the sunset.' There are other choices as well, especially if the idea of using live animals brings you pause.
Color Bombs and Sparklers: Still all the rage! In your fabulous chosen wedding colors, or in all the hues of the LGBTQ+ rainbow!
Flower Petals: Vintage and classic! Just be sure the aisle your guests create for you is narrow, so those petals find their way over your heads without much effort!
Ribbon wands: These work so well for an afternoon send-off, and especially for weddings with a garden-oriented or whimsical theme. Long strands of varied ribbon can be thick or thin, and even personalized with your names and special date for a take-away keepsake. Ribbons can be attached to a branch or thin dowel, but guests can also just hold the end of the ribbon for an even easier option.
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Winter Weddings are here! What a wonderful time of year to find ways to include Natural Accents in to Your Own Special Celebration! Whether your ceremony is weeks away... or a year or two in the future --- Read on for 5 Easy Tips to add to the festive polish of your festivities!
Wire birds' nest - For use as a ring pillow, table decor accent, or hanging keepsake: These can certainly be bought at a craft store or online... but they are also super easy to make yourself!
You'll need: *10-15 yards of medium gauge wire (silver, gold, copper... any color you like to match your wedding theme!) *Assortment of beads (make sure the holes are larger than the wire gauge size!) *Larger bead or crystal *Ribbon, small embellishments as you like (monograms, stylized totems, small inspirational accents) *Wire cutters / pliers *Glue gun *Small piece of fluff, tulle or fabric to line bottom of nest Total Cost app. $10-15
Unwind wire, make sure to stretch out any kinks. IMPORTANT: Keep a 2-3 inch length free at the end... then begin to wrap the wire loosely around your finger or thumb... about five times to make a small base. Then turn the base upside down (so that the 2-3 inch tail hangs down) and then wrap the wire in larger circles around the base, so that the nest gets larger and larger as you build upwards. As you wrap these larger circles, you must weave the wire in with the earlier rotations, or the wire will just unwind. It's also more realistic to make some rotations loose and some tighter. Begin adding a bead here and there, and also weaving in a ribbon or two to add unique color and beauty to your design. Tuck the end of the wire safely in to an earlier rotation so that it does not stick out when used. Place tulle, fabric or fluff at the bottom of the nest to create a holding space for your rings, or to nestle in a little embellishment such as a badge with the words "Love Prevails" if the nest is to be a decor item. To finish the design, hang a large crystal or bead on to the 2-3 inch tail at the bottom of the base. Curve over that end of the wire with the pliers to hook it safely back under. This hanging crystal or bead is a beautiful detail if the nest is to be used as a ring pillow or a hanging keepsake!
Ever considered a bouquet train? If your apparel doesn't lend itself to a formal train... or you don't want to wear one b/c it's not your style (or for whatever reason!)... it's fun to consider adding an extended length of colored tulle or other fabric to your handheld bouquet, so that it presents a nod to the tradition, along with a sense of motion forward, as you proceed down the aisle and into your next chapter as the spouse of your beloved. Choosing an organic color such as pumpkin or copper, or a wintry hue such as silver, or a textured fabric (embroidered perhaps with an elegant snowflake design) - is an easy way to add another hint of natural charm to your celebration.
De-Stress with Trendy Ink Stampers: Add accents to simple paper napkins, or your wedding program or menu. This is an easy way to get crafty as you prep for Your Special Day... and save a little money along the way!
You'll need: *Plain paper napkins, programs, menus or other essentials you plan to include in your celebration *Ink pad/s *Rubber stamps *Stamp cleaning supplies
Look online or at your local craft store for rubber stamps that feature swirling floral designs, monograms, candles, etc. Choose ink pads to match your wedding colors, or go with basic colors (black, white, gold) as you prefer, to set a tone. Be sure the ink colors you choose will work well with the paper items you've picked out. Consider a swooping floral pattern at the top corner of your napkin, program or menu. Add a monogram, emblem or themed graphic such as a double candle, intertwined hearts, or lovebirds as a central image stamped in to your design work. Have fun getting creative!
(Be sure to take time to set up your crafting area in advance, with scrap paper or an alternative to protect your tabletop. Ink can get messy and is permanent!)
Easy Accent Decor: Enjoy an afternoon of shopping therapy... a little break from the wedding planning! Visit your local shops during discount days for holiday ornaments that are packaged in bulk. With a little persistence, you can find rainbow colored glittery spheres, wooden snowflakes, faux botanicals such as holly or evergreens, and other shapes and styles to suit the theme of your own wedding celebration. Pick up some spray paint, glitter, unique confetti (there's all kinds of shaped confetti these days that can easily match your theme) then head home and decorate any or all of these wooden or styrofoam treasures with paint and bling. (If the ornaments are plastic, be sure the paint you choose will apply successfully!) Match your wedding colors, add twine or ribbon as necessary to hang... or simply plan to add your crafty creations on a bed of accent fabric draped around the more formalized centerpieces on each of your reception tables. Super budget-friendly!
Keeping the Send-Off Eco-friendly: Sure, sparklers and rainbow-colored smoke bombs are all the rage for your final appearance as you leave your reception festivities... but if you're striving to include natural elements you might consider a more traditional approach. Instead of a rice toss, or birdseed toss, provide your guests with dried lavender, rose petals, or other botanicals. These can easily be presented in several rustic (and seasonally decorated) baskets for guests to take freely as they await your grand exit. Happy Honeymooning!
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