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People Exclusive: The Transgender Man Who Fought in the Civil War - The Amazing Life of Albert Cashier

People Exclusive: (NEW YORK) – Albert Cashier hid his identity to fight for the Union in the Civil War. Years later, however, his role in the war – and as a man – came under fire.

The new documentary series We've Been Around looks at remarkable, often little-known stories of trans people who made history.

Rhys Ernst, the Emmy-nominated director and co-producer ofTransparent, and Focus Features, the film company behind The Danish Girl, teamed up to create the series, launching exclusively onPEOPLE.com, EW.com, Essence.com and Advocate.com. (Alicia Vikander won an Oscar on Sunday for playing the wife of transgender artist Lili Elbe in The Danish Girl, now out on DVD and On Demand.)

In this video clip, a narrator tells the dramatic story of a transgender man who hid his identity for years in order to fight for his country.

"Though Albert started his life as a girl, his cropped hair and manner of dress raised no questions," the video says about a 19-year-old Cashier in 1862.

Two years earlier, Cashier was a stowaway and journeyed from Ireland to the United States to start his new life as a transgender man.

"To join the Union Army, a person had to be able to march and run," the narrator says. "You had to have a trigger finger and enough teeth to rip open a powder cartridge. You had to be a man."

Cashier joined the 95th Illinois regiment and participated in over 40 engagements, making him among the few transgender men known to have fought in the Civil War. Members of his regiment knew him as "Al" or "Little Albert" and he was considered an honorable member of the regiment.

See the full article from People for more details!
http://www.people.com/article/weve-been-around-transgender-docuseries-albert-cashier

 

 

"Janet King", new Australian drama with lesbian lead character

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Leading Australian actress Marta Dusseldorp (A Place to Call Home, Jack Irish) shines again in the new, must-see legal drama JANET KING. As a fiercely intelligent prosecutor, her character is an extremely strong female lead that stands by her principles as she faces dangerous criminals, sexist colleagues, and corrupt policemen, while raising twin children with her wife. I highly recommend this gripping series.
 
“Gritty, crime-centered drama with a lesbian lead…Marta Dusseldorp is stunning...
You will fall in love with watching her wrestle principle and pragmatism…
a real and authentic depiction of a same-sex marriage” –AfterEllen
 
“Marta Dusseldorp is effortlessly cool as Janet King, a fully developed female character that we don’t see often enough on our screens.” –The Hoopla
 
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CHECK IT OUT!  Here's a link to the trailer (https://vimeo.com/113886200) All 8-episodes are available on the press watch site, http://press.rlje.net/ 
Janet King makes its U.S. Premiere exclusively on Acorn TV on Mondays, March 14 through April 25.
 
 

Ideas and Inspiration for Wedding Do-It-Yourselfers

deb9f9efc56ef2a940bdf0d58ccaad5c LFor some the idea of tackling any aspect of your wedding to do list without the aid of a professional is a daunting and often scary task.   For others taking on aspects such as wedding décor and favors can be a fun de-stressor and offer welcome reprieve from the everyday stress of planning a wedding. In this week's podcast we discuss some fun and creative ideas for wedding centerpieces, lighting and more. We invite you and your partner to sit down and find your inspiration with some fun ideas we've collected from around Pinterest on our Ideas & Inspiration boards. You can find them online at http://www.pinterest.com/rwnweddings.

 

 

 

Ongoing Support for Prom!

Prom1In continued support of the Lousiana senior who was refused to attend her prom in a tuxedo last Spring, SharpeSuiting and NikKacy have launched the The Love Fellowship awarding one deserving LGBTQ senior (High School) a custom head-to-toe outfit.
 
Participants are encouraged to share "why a unique gender expression is important" along with their vision for a perfect prom outfit via LoveProm.Weebly.com by February 13, 2016.
 
 
 

Keepsake Gift Idea Honors SCOTUS Decision

Marriage-Eq 150Lovely keepsake hardcover to commemorate this year's SCOTUS decision!  A great gift idea for the upcoming holiday season, perfect for your favorite happy couple, and equality advocates as well.

As Slate has reported, Justice Kennedy's words are already being quoted at wedding ceremonies across the country. This exquisitely produced, small-format volume is the perfect gift to present a couple on the occasion of their legal union. It will also be a coveted, meaningful wedding invitation or party favor for marriage festivities across the country.
 
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The U.S Supreme Court Decision on Marriage Equality
as delivered by Justice Anthony Kennedy
Published by Melville House
Pub date: October 2015
ISBN 978-1-61219-532-2
U.S. $14.95 (Can. $19.50)
Hardcover /  64 pages / 5” x 7”
718-722-9204
http://www.MHPBooks.com
 
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Also available in paperback.

 

New Podcasts from the Team of RainbowWeddingNetwork!

Here at www.RainbowWeddingNetwork.com, we are excited to finally begin broadcasting our own podcast!  This has been a long-term dream of RWN co-founder Cindy Sproul:  to offer another helpful resource to our LGBT brides and grooms, as well as wedding and home-related business professionals who wish to serve our couples.  The podcast is a convenient & fun way to listen to various ceremony planning tips and ideas, as well as insights from our team about the LGBT wedding industry and current events regarding family and marriage equality.  We hope you'll listen in!

http://www.rainbowweddingnetwork.com/podcasts

 

 

 

Wake County, NC Expands its Anti-Discrimination Policy

Wake County CommOn Monday, September 21, 2015, the Wake County Board of Commissioners voted unanimously to add sexual orientation, gender identity and gender expression to its anti-discrimination policy.

The county has practiced equal employment opportunity for some time already, according to Commissioner John Burns, and the County's updated Equal Employment Opportunity Ordinance enshrines protections for LGBT workers and job applicants into law.

The ordinance contains the following language:  “Discrimination against applicants to and employees of Wake County Government in hiring, promotion, discharge, pay, fringe benefits, job training, classification, referral, and other aspects of employment on the basis of race, color, religion, sex (including pregnancy and wages), national origin, age, disability, genetics, veteran status, sexual orientation, gender identity or expression, family status or political affiliation is prohibited.”
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Today, I am happy to vote yes on a new Equal Employment Opportunity ordinance that will put Wake County's longstanding practice into law and ban discrimination against county applicants and employees. This is an important step for Wake County, and I am proud to play a role in making it happen. … John Burns – Wake County Commissioner Facebook page
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Wake County is the fourth county in North Carolina to adopt an GLBT non-discrimination policy, along with Buncombe, Durham and Mecklenburg Counties. The cities of Asheville, Boone, Chapel Hill, Carrboro, Charlotte, High Point and Raleigh also have non-discrimination laws for GLBT workers on their books.

The ACLU of North Carolina reports that 71 percent of North Carolina voters believe employers should not be able to discriminate against employees based on their sexual orientation, according to a Public Policy Polling survey.

"Employers know that part of attracting and retaining the best employees is offering a workplace that is fair, where qualified individuals are not discriminated against based on characteristics unrelated to the job," said Susanna Birdsong, Policy Counsel for the American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU) of North Carolina.

"The sad reality is, despite overwhelming public support for protecting GLBT workers in North Carolina, it is still legal to fire or refuse to hire someone because of their sexual orientation in much of our state. We urge the General Assembly and other local governments across the state to pass comprehensive employment protections for GLBT workers.”

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Our thanks to the Raleigh GLBT Report for sharing this important news!
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Rainbow Wedding Network Preferred Jeweler Becomes The First Certified Fairtrade Gold Jeweler in the United States

PRESS-PHOTO EDITOver the years, Marc Choyt with Reflective Images Jewelry has been an active member of www.RainbowWeddingNetwork.com.  He's offered his jewelry expertise through various articles on our website, and has offered his skills as a jewelry professional to LGBT couples throughout the country.

Recently, Marc's company has been named the first certified Fairtrade Gold Jeweler in the United States - an honor worth celebrating!  As many gay and lesbian grooms and brides strive for the utmost authenticity within their ceremonies and receptions, this is one sure way to rest assured that the engagement and wedding rings are created with the highest standards.

Reflective Images Jewelry has shown great leadership in becoming the first jeweler using Fairtrade gold in the USA. This move in the world’s largest jewelry market has the potential to send ripple effects across the globe,” said Harriet Lamb, CEO of Fairtrade International. “Americans buying that special piece of jewelry can now help make a change in the lives of artisanal and small-scale miners. These miners urgently need improved terms of trade and we congratulate Reflective Images Jewelry on setting the pace for the industry in the way jewelry is sourced,” she said.

“With Reflective Images Jewelry bringing Fairtrade Gold to the North American market, we are expanding the Fairtrade and organic movement and sourcing trends to include the mining sector,”said Marc Choyt, President of Reflective Images Jewelry.  “The antidote to the disconnect between jewelry’s sourcing and symbolism is to create a new cultural narrative that actually connects customers to producer communities. There is increasing attention to the source and production ethics of food and clothing. Similarly, Fairtrade gold greatly enhances the value of our custom handmade jewelry to our customers through the relationships it creates,” he added.

Choyt has dedicated much of his time in the last ten years as an activist in the jewelry sector, educating clients and colleagues through Fair Jewelry Action, an environmental justice and human rights network which he co-founded.  At his home in Santa Fe, he serves on the boards of the Santa Fe Green Chamber of Commerce and the Turquoise Trail Preservation Trust, supporting sustainable businesses and protecting the bioregion south of Santa Fe.  Recently he initiated and co-lead a community effort that successful blocked a proposed gold mine.

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More About Reflective Images Jewelry
Reflective Images Jewelry was founded in 1995 under the direction of the designer, Helen Chantler, who is the Creative Director of the company in partnership with Marc Choyt, who serves as President and directs business operations.  Chantler was born in England and spent her adolescent years in South East Asia. Throughout her life, she has traveled over much of the world in her quest to experience and understand rich cultures that celebrate the human journey. She has spent decades to developing her own style and techniques working sculpturally, cutting out tiny pieces of gold and silver, which she overlays, making textures to create base relief images and contemporary interpretation of ancient designs. Through her fairtade gold wedding and engagement rings and jewelry which align talismanic meaning with ethical sourcing and artisanal design, Chantler expresses her concerned for the environment and the essential beauty of traditional cultures.  The new website re-launching their brand features her latest designs; she says that “Jewelry will always be more than just fashion. It is about what is essential and real and what can awaken us now to beauty and connection.”

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For more information visit their website:

www.ReflectiveJewelry.com

 

 

Ping Pong with Civil Rights?

I suppose this is the natural order of things...  Given the recent SCOTUS ruling there will be some back-and-forth before all the dust settles.  This dynamic however is hard for some of us to comprehend, given our belief in the separation of church & state, yet here it is.  Not unexpected, but still not easy to stomach either:

Kentucky clerk's office defies order; no same-sex marriage licenses
http://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/ky-clerks-office-defies-order-no-same-sex-marriage-licenses/ar-BBlGU30

 

 

 

The Experience of Equality...

Many of the businesses who list in our Online Directory here at www.RainbowWeddingNetwork.com, or exhibit at our LGBT Wedding Expos, have supported marriage equality for years, even decades.  And some of the wedding professionals who work with us are gay or lesbian themselves, and have experienced firsthand or witnessed directly the effects of inequality and discrimination.

One of our favorite New York-based photographers, Steven Rosen, is one such wedding professional.  His story is very moving, and the journey he has chosen over the past twenty years as an individual and as a photographer, is powerful and inspiring.  We invite you to read the recent article with CNN, in which Steven was featured.

Our sincere congratulations, Steven!  Kudos!

http://www.cnn.com/2015/07/24/us/same-sex-couples-celebrate-vows-across-nation/index.html


For additional information about Steven and his photography:
www.stevenrosenphotography.com

 

North Carolina Legislature Override... Oops, now we slide back again!

NC Legislature Overrides Governor McCrory’s Veto of Mean-Spirited Public Official “Opt-Out” Legislation


WASHINGTON, article courtesy The Human Rights Campaign Today, by a vote of 69-41, the North Carolina House of Representatives voted to override Governor Pat McCrory’s veto of SB 2 - a needless and mean-spirited law allowing “magistrates, assistant registers of deeds, and deputy registers of deeds to recuse themselves from performing duties related to marriage ceremonies due to sincerely held religious objections.”


Marty Rouse, National Field Director for the Human Rights Campaign (HRC), the nation’s largest lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) civil rights organization, issued the following statement:


“It is tremendously disappointing that the legislature chose to override Governor McCrory’s veto of this misguided and mean-spirited legislation. Allowing public officials the ability to opt-out of the job they are paid by the public to do is completely contrary to the purpose of public service and should have no place in North Carolina law.”


The Human Rights Campaign is America’s largest civil rights organization working to achieve lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender equality. HRC envisions a world where LGBT people are embraced as full members of society at home, at work and in every community.

 

 

Chicago Review Press releasing latest edition of 'Harold & Maude'

High-ressmRemember the film??  'Harold and Maude' is the companion novel to the 1971 American dark romantic comedy and cult favorite of the same name. Colin Higgins wrote the novel shortly after the release of his film, and it has remained popular ever since. Chicago Review Press is pleased to be releasing the latest edition of Higgins’ cherished story, with a revitalized and fresh cover that will appeal to a new generation of audiences.

In August of 1988, shortly after his 47th birthday, Colin Higgins passed away from AIDS related illnesses. His legacies, however, will be lasting. The publisher is excited to announce that the book's royalties will go to the Colin Higgins Foundation, the organization Higgins established in 1986 to further his humanitarian goals and to carry out his vision of creating a better world. The Foundation supports numerous LGBTQ organizations, ranging from the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network to youth outreach and AIDS prevention programs. Since 1993, the Foundation has awarded more than 341 grants totaling more than three million dollars. Colin Higgins will long be remembered, not just for his heart-warming work, but also for his extraordinary humanity.

For more information about the foundation and the new book, visit:
http://www.colinhiggins.org/