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"I Hate the Hatred..."

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12-year-old boy in Mexico stands against 11,000 anti-gay protesters.  Such courage!

 

Image courtesy Manuel Rodriguez

 

  

 

 

http://www.msn.com/en-us/video/peopleandplaces/brave-12-year-old-boy-stands-up-to-11000-anti-gay-protesters-in-harrowing-image/vi-AAiQCZe?ocid=spartanntp

 

 

 

Last Updated on Tuesday, 13 September 2016 16:37

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We Can Heal... An op-ed that applies to all minorities, including the LGBT community

The following letter was written by one of our recent LGBT Wedding Expo exhibitors, Douglass Carr Cunningham, who joined us at our Charleston event in August 2016.  He shared this piece with us and expressed this thoughts that it rang true for the LGBT community as well as the African American community.  We agree!  And thought it well worth sharing.  Enjoy, as you savor the insights and uplifting message:

 

THIS LETTER IS IN RESPONSE TO RON BRINSON’S EXCELLENT

JULY 16 ARTICLE FOR RACIAL HEALING

One Foot In Power, One In Slavery…We Can Heal

By Douglas Carr Cunningham

           

            We Americans continue to live under the dark cloud of racial conflict, when the truth and solution is right in front of us.

            Our national concept of multiculturalism and diversity must be discarded as the dialogue in regards to our racial relationships; our commonality and unity as Americans must be stressed, instead.  I have long believed we are of the same race, and should not separated into ‘divisions.’  I am frustrated and a bit angry that we are in categories that separate us – white, African-American, Latino, Asian, etc.  Our outward appearances are somewhat different, but it is fact that we share the same blood and DNA.  Our strength as Americans is our unity as one people, one soul.

            I am told that I am naïve in my belief, but to bring us all together our national dialogue must change.  We are constantly being manipulated.

            ‘Diversity’ is a culprit. I abhor the word and how it is used for political purposes.  By its very definition, ‘Diversity’ means difference, which sets up separation, which has come to emphasize the separation between all people of color in this country (whites have color, too).  We have come too far with this Diversity craze.  We should be emphasizing our Unity as a people, our cohesion as a nation of different colored humans.  We will survive chaos if we refuse to be divided by Diversity and difference.

            The word, multiculturalism, is also stressed more than it needs to be.  While we are a nation of many cultures, we must adjust ourselves into an American culture.  Together, we must define the American culture, and unify under its banner.

             Martin Luther King had a dream, one that this nation once celebrated.  His dream is still attainable, but I fear we have forgotten what he stood for.

            My label as a boy was “Colored.” I was a colored boy, who was a credit to his race, as I remember.  The word, “nigger” was tossed around a lot, when I was a kid, by white and black, and it was never nice.  When I was transformed from Colored to “Black”, I admit James Brown made me a little more proud of whom I was.  Then came the label “African-American.”  Not okay for me, because it is too much of a politically correct moniker, made to give brown Americans a connection to the ‘home’ country, like the Irish, like the Italians, the Chinese, the Mexicans, etc.  My ancestors came from Africa.  I did not.  I was born in Greensboro, North Carolina.  We slave descendants have always been manipulated, and we are still being manipulated by forces pro and con.  I am brown-skinned, but I reject being labeled. I reject labeling others, and I have good reason to feel as I do.

            As a black citizen, I discovered at a late age that one side of my family was born from the “white” power structure of this nation, the other side from ancestral slavery.  The story goes like this.  My mother’s biological father was a powerful North Carolina politician.  Her mother was his black maid.  Mom, a blue-eyed, blond baby, was adopted twice; first to a white family, which gave her up, then to a black couple on the black side of Greensboro, North Carolina.  My adoptive Nana was of a mixed color, so it worked.  Mom was raised with a black identity, but she was a very “white-looking” girl.  My father was black, born in Spartanburg, South Carolina, from a mother who worked the cotton warehouses as a 14-year-old in Blair, South Carolina. My paternal grandmother’s family history is recorded from 1867, and Reconstruction.  Most likely, my family was enslaved before then.

            Two of my daughters could be members of the Daughters of the American Revolution, if they cared to be.  My second wife, their mother, is connected directly to Abraham Lincoln’s mother, Nancy Hanks, and Col. William Bradford of Plymouth Rock.  The lineage has been traced already.  My oldest daughter’s mother is from the Philippines.  My third wife’s daughters connect directly to Portugal.

            One foot in power, and one foot in slavery - that is how I see the origins of my family.  Surely, there are others like me in this country.

            Some of this I learned very late. Such secrets are similar in America, all over the place (Edward Ball’s book, Slaves In The Family comes to mind).  As a nation we suffer from so much secrecy, hate and false truths.  I believe with a forward-looking heart it is possible the real truth can set us all free.  But it is a hard road.  We have shared a terrible history of racial conflict in this country. It is important for “white” Americans to acknowledge and honor people of color.  It is important for people of color to try hard to forgive the past, as it is gone.  We must overcome difference.  The future awaits us.

            I grew up somewhat color-blind.  This is not to say I have not been angered by unjust incidents in my life.  Oh, yes, I have, but the memory of my mother’s angst, and my father’s suppressed opportunities, however, has served to push me forward.  I am not a group.  I am who I am.

            Let us not be manipulated.  Our commonality as a people can bring us together as Americans.  Disperse the racial and multicultural cloud. Change the dialogue to one of Unity.

Douglas Carr Cunningham, SC

douglascarrcunningham@live.com  - 843-442-7424
Lead Photographer, Charleston CameraWork

 

Last Updated on Friday, 09 September 2016 15:58

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First openly lesbian Miss America?

AAiyDupArticle courtesy Associated Press
 
ATLANTIC CITY, N.J. (AP) — After competing in pageants for generations in the closet or working behind the scenes, gays and lesbians finally get to see one of their own take one of pageantry's biggest stages.
 
Miss Missouri, Erin O' Flaherty, will compete for the Miss America crown this weekend as the first openly lesbian contestant.
 
 
 

Last Updated on Tuesday, 06 September 2016 14:34

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Why Support LGBT Resources??

A vendor shares her thoughts...
 
"I was a little ambivalent about renewing my ad, since over the last year it had drawn in only a very modest amount of business.  But it suddenly dawned on me that placing an ad on a site dedicated to LGBT weddings is much more than a sales-and-marketing opportunity ~ it's a political statement. Especially in the face of the upcoming presidential election, and the stunning intolerance it has helped foment, it's a way to say I stand unequivocally with my LGBT sisters and brothers. Regardless of how much business the ad may or may not bring in, it's money well spent."
 

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Last Updated on Thursday, 04 August 2016 11:55

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And yet another reason why we love Joe Biden...

Vice President Joe Biden Officiated His First Wedding for Same-Sex Couple This Week

Eight years ago our staff here at http://www.RainbowWeddingNetwork.com had the pleasure of attending a Clinton rally in Asheville, meeting her briefly, asking her about her stance of LGBT marriage rights, and we gave her a gift:  one of our signature 'Same Love, Same Rights'® lapel pins.  Such an honor!

Just this year, we had the chance to attend another rally - in Charlotte, this time, just last month, when President Obama officially endorsed Secretary Clinton in her bid for the presidency.

None of our staff has had the pleasure of seeing or meeting Vice President Biden, but his leadership and down-to-earth style have continued to captivate and inspire us.  He's continued to be an advocate for the common person, and that, for quite some time, has included the LGBT minority.  Kudos, Joe!  We appreciate your service and your integrity.  And congratulations on taking this beautiful opportunity to officiate at the marriage of these lucky grooms earlier this week!


http://abcnews.go.com/Politics/vice-president-joe-biden-officiated-wedding-sex-couple/story?id=41058123

 

  

Last Updated on Tuesday, 02 August 2016 12:34

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